Services Integrated in Sessions
Person-Centered Therapy
A humanistic approach to psychotherapy developed by Carl Rogers. It is based on the belief that people have the innate ability to understand themselves and make positive changes when they are in an environment of unconditional positive regard, empathy, and congruence. In person-centered therapy, the therapist provides a non-judgmental and supportive space where the client can explore their thoughts and feelings, ultimately helping them achieve personal growth, self-acceptance, and emotional healing.
Unconditional Positive Regard
This technique involves the therapist offering a non-judgmental, accepting, and supportive attitude toward the client. By creating a safe space where the client feels fully accepted, the therapist encourages self-exploration and growth. This unconditional acceptance helps the client feel valued, regardless of their actions or feelings.
Empathy
The therapist strives to deeply understand the client’s emotions, thoughts, and experiences from their perspective. This empathetic listening helps the client feel understood and supported, which fosters a deeper connection and facilitates self-awareness and emotional healing.
Congruence (Authenticity)
In this technique, the therapist remains authentic and genuine, being open about their own feelings and reactions when appropriate. This creates a transparent and trustworthy environment that encourages the client to be honest and open, leading to greater self-discovery.
Reflection of Feelings
The therapist reflects back the client’s emotions or feelings in a way that helps the client gain clarity and insight. This often involves paraphrasing or summarizing what the client has expressed, particularly in emotional moments, which helps them feel heard and assists them in exploring their feelings more deeply.
Psychoanalysis
Focuses on exploring the unconscious mind to understand how early life experiences, repressed memories, and unresolved conflicts shape current behavior and emotions. The goal of psychoanalysis is to bring these unconscious thoughts and feelings into conscious awareness, allowing individuals to gain insight into their issues and resolve inner conflicts. This therapy often involves long-term treatment and frequent sessions.
Free Association
In this technique, the therapist encourages the individual to speak freely and without censorship about whatever comes to mind. The goal is to uncover repressed thoughts or feelings that may be influencing behavior or emotions, helping the person become aware of unconscious material.
Dream Analysis
Sigmund Freud believed that dreams are the “royal road to the unconscious.” In dream analysis, the therapist helps the individual explore the hidden meanings of dreams, which can reveal unconscious desires, fears, and conflicts.
Transference
This occurs when a person projects feelings, attitudes, or reactions onto the therapist that originally developed in earlier relationships, often from childhood. By exploring transference, the therapist can help the individual understand how past relationships affect present behavior.
Resistance
Resistance refers to the ways in which individuals may unconsciously avoid discussing painful or anxiety-provoking topics. Recognizing and addressing resistance helps the therapist understand the areas that are difficult to confront and aids in uncovering unconscious material.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
Helps individuals identify and change negative thought patterns, beliefs, and behaviors that contribute to emotional distress. It is based on the idea that our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors are interconnected, and by altering negative thought patterns, we can improve how we feel and behave. CBT is a structured, goal-oriented therapy commonly used to treat anxiety, depression, stress, and other mental health conditions.
Cognitive Reframing
This technique involves identifying and challenging negative or distorted thoughts (such as “I’m worthless” or “Everything will go wrong”) and replacing them with more balanced, realistic thoughts. The goal is to change the way we think about situations, reducing stress and improving emotional responses.
Behavioral Activation
This tool focuses on encouraging individuals to engage in activities that are rewarding and fulfilling, especially when they are feeling down or avoiding things. By reintroducing positive activities, this technique aims to break the cycle of depression and inactivity.
Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques
CBT often incorporates mindfulness, which involves staying present and non-judgmentally aware of one’s thoughts and feelings. This can reduce stress and anxiety. Techniques like deep breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, and guided imagery help calm the body and mind, promoting relaxation.
Exposure Therapy
In this technique, individuals are gradually and systematically exposed to feared situations or thoughts in a controlled manner. This helps desensitize the person to the fear, reducing avoidance behaviors and anxiety over time. It’s especially effective in treating phobias, PTSD, and OCD.
Internal Family Systems Therapy
Focuses on the concept that the mind is made up of various “parts” or subpersonalities, each with its own thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. According to IFS, these parts are often organized into different roles, such as protectors, managers, or exiles. The goal of IFS therapy is to help individuals heal by fostering harmony and integration between these parts, particularly by helping the person connect with their core self, which is characterized by qualities like calmness, curiosity, compassion, and confidence. Through this process, IFS aims to resolve internal conflicts and promote emotional healing.
Identifying and Mapping Parts
In IFS therapy, clients are encouraged to identify and differentiate the various parts of their internal system. These parts can include “managers” (which try to control situations to prevent harm), “firefighters” (which react to emotional pain with impulsive behaviors), and “exiles” (parts that hold painful memories or emotions). The therapist helps the client explore these parts and understand their roles in the person’s inner world.
The Self and Self-Leadership
A central concept in IFS is the “Self,” which is the core, authentic part of the person. IFS helps clients reconnect with their Self, which is seen as wise, compassionate, and capable of leading the internal system. The therapist encourages clients to let the Self take the lead in interacting with their parts, fostering healing and resolution within the internal system.
Unblending
Unblending involves helping clients separate from their reactive or overwhelmed parts, allowing them to observe those parts without becoming fully identified with them. This technique helps individuals avoid getting caught up in extreme emotions or behaviors tied to specific parts, making it easier to make balanced, thoughtful decisions from the perspective of the Self.
Direct Communication with Parts
In IFS therapy, the therapist encourages clients to communicate directly with their different parts, fostering dialogue and understanding. By engaging with these parts, clients can gain insight into the underlying needs and fears that drive their behaviors. This communication allows the parts to be heard, which helps reduce internal conflicts and promote healing.
Logotherapy
A form of existential psychotherapy developed by Viktor Frankl, focusing on the belief that the primary human drive is to find meaning in life. According to Frankl, even in the most difficult and painful circumstances, individuals can find purpose and meaning, which can lead to greater psychological resilience and well-being. Logotherapy helps people discover meaning in their lives, particularly when they are facing suffering, uncertainty, or existential crises. It emphasizes personal responsibility, the freedom to choose one’s attitude, and the search for meaningful goals.
Freedom of Choice
Logotherapy emphasizes that individuals have the freedom to choose their attitude, even in the face of suffering. This technique encourages clients to recognize that they always have the power to choose how they respond to their circumstances, empowering them to find meaning even in challenging situations.
Meaning-Centered Approach
In logotherapy, clients are encouraged to explore and identify what gives their life meaning. Whether it’s through work, relationships, or creative pursuits, finding a sense of purpose is seen as essential for emotional well-being. This technique often involves exploring the client’s values and passions to discover what truly brings fulfillment.
Pardoxical Intention
This technique involves encouraging the client to do or imagine the very thing they fear or avoid. For example, if a person is anxious about falling asleep, they may be encouraged to try to stay awake on purpose. By confronting the fear directly, individuals can often reduce the anxiety associated with it. This technique helps to reframe the problem, reducing its power over the individual.
Dereflection
Dereflection is a technique that encourages individuals to shift their focus away from self-centered thoughts and preoccupations and direct their attention outward, often toward others or meaningful activities. By doing so, individuals can break free from negative self-reflection and anxiety, allowing them to find purpose and meaning outside of their own concerns.
Attachment Therapy
Focuses on the role of early relationships, particularly the bond between a child and their primary caregiver, in shaping emotional development and behavior. This therapy is based on the attachment theory developed by John Bowlby, which suggests that the quality of early attachments influences how individuals relate to others throughout their lives. Attachment therapy aims to address disruptions in these early bonds and heal emotional wounds caused by insecure attachment patterns.
Creating a Safe and Secure Environment
This technique involves establishing a trusting and emotionally safe space for the individual, where they feel validated and understood. This is crucial in attachment therapy as it helps to heal past attachment wounds and foster secure bonds.
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
In attachment therapy, EFT helps individuals recognize and express deep emotions tied to attachment issues. This technique encourages people to confront their feelings of vulnerability, fear, or abandonment, allowing for emotional healing and the creation of stronger, more secure bonds.
Reparenting
In some forms of attachment therapy, reparenting involves guiding an individual to “parent” their inner child—addressing unmet emotional needs from childhood. This process helps the person heal from past attachment wounds and develop healthier, more secure relationships in adulthood.
Attachment-Based Parenting Techniques
This tool is used when working with children or families. It focuses on fostering secure attachment by encouraging responsive, sensitive, and consistent parenting behaviors, which help children feel safe, valued, and understood.
How Do I Know if Therapy is Right for Me?
Choosing therapy is a deeply personal decision, and if you’ve been struggling with emotional distress, reaching out for support can be a powerful first step toward healing and self-discovery. The connection with your therapist is key to this journey, and I’d love to explore if we’re a good fit to work together. Feel free to reach out—let’s begin this transformative journey toward growth and empowerment.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
Here are some frequently asked questions that individuals may consider before starting therapy. If you have any others, feel free to reach out.
How do I know if I need therapy?
If you’re experiencing ongoing emotional distress, feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unable to cope with daily life, therapy can help. It’s also useful if you’re facing issues like anxiety, depression, relationship struggles, trauma, or life transitions. Therapy can support personal growth, self-understanding, and coping with challenges.
What should I expect in my first therapy session?
In our first session, I will typically ask about your background, the issues you’re facing, and what you hope to achieve in therapy. It’s a time to get to know each other and discuss the treatment process. You’ll also have the chance to ask any questions about therapy and establish comfort with me.
How long does therapy usually last?
The length of therapy varies depending on your needs and goals. Some people may benefit from just a few sessions, while others might engage in longer-term therapy. Therapy can be short-term or ongoing, and I will work with you to determine a plan that fits your unique situation.
How often should I attend therapy sessions?
Most clients attend therapy weekly, especially in the beginning, though some may choose bi-weekly or monthly sessions. The frequency of sessions depends on your goals and the level of support you feel you need.
Is therapy confidential?
Yes, therapy is confidential, with some legal exceptions (e.g., if there’s risk of harm to yourself or others). Therapists are bound by strict confidentiality rules, which allows you to speak freely and openly during sessions.
How do I know if you will be a good fit for me?
A good fit means feeling comfortable, understood, and respected by your therapist. It’s important to trust your therapist and feel that they genuinely care about your progress. If you’re unsure, it’s okay to try a few sessions or discuss concerns with me. I am always open and asking for feedback to create a safe environment.
How much does therapy cost, and do you accept insurance?
Session costs can vary as it is in my values to try to ensure anyone can have access to the help they need. This means therapy is on a sliding scale. Therapy is conducted under my private practice, so I do not accept insurance.
How do I prepare for a therapy session?
It’s helpful to think about what you want to focus on, but there’s no need to prepare extensively. Some people keep a journal to track thoughts or emotions between sessions. It’s also useful to approach each session with openness and curiosity.
What if I don't feel better right away?
Therapy can take time. Some people begin feeling relief after just a few sessions, while others may need more time to process emotions and gain insights. Trusting the process and communicating with your therapist about any concerns will help guide your progress.